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Pictures will come later, but here's a brief account of Ellid's adventures at Pennsic:


The drive down was quite smooth. I made good time to Buffalo and spent the night at [livejournal.com profile] alphasarah and M's house. TRex is gorgeous (and smart!), the house is fabulous (I want their downstairs fireplace, badly), and their hospitality was most welcome. They also live almost exactly three hours from Cooper's Lake, so I was on site, unpacked, and in garb by 1:30 on Saturday afternoon.

It was incredibly good to be home - Bergental's encampment was fabulous, and it was lovely being around my friends for a whole week. I so needed the break!

Highlights:

- The House Runnymede Dinner on Monday night was extraordinary. For those in other kingdoms, House Runnymede is the landed barons and baronesses of the East. Each barony takes a turn hosting a Pennsic dinner for the household, and this year it was our turn.

The theme was a Roman dinner, complete with invitations on papyrus by [livejournal.com profile] countessinn and [livejournal.com profile] islenskr, a five course meal by Mistress Eleanore using recipes from Apicius, and everyone in Roman costume. I ended up announcing the courses, plus I took pictures of everything: food, the arrival of each guest, the servers, the banquet area, the entertainment (by Clan Tynker), music provided by shalmestere (whose name LJ is refusing to post), [livejournal.com profile] hudebnik, and several others, a whole roast pig, and so on. We worked hard, and it showed - it was the talk of the War, even in non-Eastern camps.

And now I've been converted to the practicality of Roman garb for the War because it's comfortable and cool. *ack*

- The arts and sciences display. The artisans of the Known World brought their best work, and I took lots of pictures. The award for Insane Artisan of the Year goes to a card-weaver from the Midrealm who's duplicating a Coptic curtain...and he's using over three hundred cards!

- Shopping. I didn't buy much (a couple of books, some fabric), but I did discover Folump Press's Dragonspire books (fictionalized accounts of a Midrealm group's history - yes, they're fiction, but oh dear God is some of it familiar!). I also found that Billy & Charlie's, maker of pewter pilgrim badges, also has a fascinating adult selection, the originals of which are all from the Low Countries.

- Classes. The printed class schedule was a bit of a mess, unfortunately, but the people at A&S point worked hard to make sure that every new class was publicized and had people going to the right place. I took a few, schmoozed, and generally did my best to relax.

- Medieval Clothing and Textiles 4. It wasn't the talk of Pennsic, but *every single copy of #4*, at every bookseller, was gone by early in the week. The stock carried by my favorite bookseller, Small Churl Books, sold out before I arrived! Expect a rash of St. Birgitta caps next year....:)

- Lunch in Pittsburgh. I had lunch with Denise on Friday at the 17th Street Cafe. She's doing well, and oddly enough, feels the same way about her job that I do (see below). She's planning to use what Betty left her to go back to school and pay off some debts, and start a retirement account - at one point she asked me if I thought that was what Betty wanted her to do, and I said yes. Betty wanted us to be taken care of, and I can't imagine a better way for Denise to use her money.

- The One True Spring of Pennsic. There was a small drainage trough in the merchants' area. Someone labeled it "The Shrine of St. Dissentery - one cup cures constipation" and left peacock feathers as offerings. I didn't actually sip the holy water, but oddly enough, it seems to be working at long distance....


As for me, I've come to the decision that I'm leaving my job, even though I haven't found anything new yet. It's all but impossible to interview while working there, and after some recent incidents, and a lovely week spent feeling human again (Pennsic was the first time in almost a year I've slept consistently without the aid of medication), it's clear that it's not worth the struggle any more. Thanks to Betty, I don't have to worry about funds for a while, so right now I'm deciding exactly how and when and for how long I'm going to give notice.

But I'm giving notice this week. This is simply not worth it any more.

Date: 2008-08-10 12:39 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] wishwords.livejournal.com
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Wow, the tone of this post is so different from your recent ones. You sound like you've made all your decisions, set your priorities, and are at peace. I'm so glad to hear that Betty's money is helping two of you change your lives.

My unsolicited advice is that you make your notice as short as professionally acceptable, like two weeks. The longer you are there, the further you will be drawn back down into that pit of stress. I like seeing posts like this one. They make me want to drive up there, sit around chatting and sewing, and learn from you.

Date: 2008-08-10 01:04 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] ellid.livejournal.com
Aw, thanks! *blush* If you and L manage to get to Pennsic, come on over to my camp - we usually end up sitting around the fire most nights, talking and laughing and having a good time. I'd love to meet you both!

Date: 2008-08-10 01:05 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] wishwords.livejournal.com
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Thank you.

Date: 2008-08-10 12:54 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] tx-cronopio.livejournal.com
Good for you!

In the interests of your mental health, I'd advise giving notice tomorrow, and give them two weeks. That's it. You don't owe them any more than that, and the sooner you are started on a mental new place, the better!

Date: 2008-08-10 01:03 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] ellid.livejournal.com
That's the only question: whether to give notice tomorrow, or after I've spoken to my therapist on Tuesday. I also have to check my contract to see if there's any stickiness about taking vacation time within a certain number of days of quitting.

I've been getting quite a few butterflies about this, but the more I think about it, and the more I talked with friends about it, the more convinced I became that this is the right thing to do.

Date: 2008-08-10 01:41 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] varianor.livejournal.com
Check the contract first. Definitely. Make sure anything that you want to squeeze out of them you line up first.

I'm glad you had a good Pennsic! Good luck with the new career change. I think it will be a step in the right direction.

Date: 2008-08-10 01:59 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] tx-cronopio.livejournal.com
Also check -- usually they have to pay you for any unused vacation days.

Sick days, on the other hand...well, you might be coming down with something :)

Date: 2008-08-10 03:24 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] girlygothic.livejournal.com
By MA law they do have to pay you for any unused vacation days. If they track sick days separately from vacation days they don't have to pay you for those. But if they lump all sick and vacation day time together, and don't differentiate, they do have to pay you for all of it.

Date: 2008-08-10 01:03 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] shalmestere.livejournal.com
Clan Tinker wasn't the only entertainment.... ;-)

Date: 2008-08-10 01:22 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] ellid.livejournal.com
Amended, and thanks for the reminder! I'm still recovering from yesterday's drive...;)

Date: 2008-08-10 04:03 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] shalmestere.livejournal.com
In particular, E., the Bergentaler playing bass viol, is to be commended for her performance. She's still relatively new to the instrument, but stepped up over and beyond the call of duty (including sightreading new music to fill time when the food was unavoidably delayed). Vivat!

Date: 2008-08-10 03:41 pm (UTC)From: [identity profile] danabren.livejournal.com
Ha! Glad you got a copy of MCT4, I was thinking of you.

And what everyone else said - you sound confident and content with your life choices.

What I would do...

Date: 2008-08-11 03:48 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] orphandani.livejournal.com
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I would figure out how much vacation time I had left and then go to Human Resources and give notice and tell them you are leaving now and your notice period is however many days you have left for vacation. Then I would go to my desk, pack up my personal belongings and get the hell out. I did that at one job where I knew if I gave two weeks notice they would just fire me before the two weeks were up.

Oh-- btw-- you sound so much more relaxed now! Get out before they tie you up in knots again. {{{{{HUGS}}}}}

Date: 2008-08-14 01:28 am (UTC)From: [identity profile] escritoireazul.livejournal.com
It sounds like you had a wonderful time, and I'm so glad to hear it. You make me miss SCA and I'm going to have to get involved again after my move back to Michigan.

And good for you, deciding to give notice! It really does seem like the best idea, and I hope everything works out well for you.

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